Chance or Choice?

This is from my friend (AD). Something very meaningful

Chance or Choice?
I CHANCED upon this short post which is suprisingly similiar to what I personally feel, hence I CHOSE to share it with all my friends. =)

When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice, that's chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice.That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterwards.

Will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to turn this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his (or her) faults, that's not a chance.That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what,that's choice.
Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, cuter and richer than him or her, and yet, you decide to love them just the same, that's choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance.
But true love that lasts is truly a choice.
A choice that we make.

There's a beautiful quote that I believe is so true about this:
"Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."

We came to the world not to find someone perfect to love,
BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly.

Love is blind

I must agree that love is blind.

When one is in love, he/she will only have her/him in the eyes. One will accompany him/her to go the things that they like. Can't see the bad pts only the good pts

But I just want to ask, after getting into the relationship, why one will ask why? why can't do this, why can't do that? Can I say that we are not longer in love anymore?

I want to be in love but I am too tired to try.
I want to try to love but no confidence...

so many things that I want to do but which one first....

There are so many that I want to do but which one first..... let's list it down.....

1. photos shoot of the quiet side of singapore night life
2. shoot macro
3. create my homepage
4. learn to blade
5. go to the zoo
6. Meet friend E
7. Meet friend HL
8. Meet friend FL
9. Run and lost weight (target 80kg)
10. Save money ($XXXXX)

Let start with this and see...

So what is your list?

Are we missing someone?

Someone told me that life is like a bus ride.

Some will board the bus at difference stage of your life.
Some will leave the bus at certain point.
And we are always looking at who is coming onboard and get very sad over someone left the bus.

But most of us didn't realise that we had missed out someone that is always there for us.... the bus driver. He/She is always there since day one and never complain but ensure that we are safe. The "bus driver" of our life are our parent.

Without fail, they are always there for us.
Show them that you care before it is too late.... Cos before we know it, we are the bus driver for someone